Help! I've been struggling for 2 years and don't

[Eunicetiger]

Thanks for the advice Sandi! I'm still keeping my distance but when I see her and she initiates a convo, I am jovial and fun and funny and nice ....... But at the same time my thoughts are in not overdoing it. I'm a very touch/physical need-type of person and these last 3 weeks are really teaching me self-control.

Today is day 13 of no initiation of contact by me. I wonder if she's wondering WTF is going on??