Sorry I'm not making sense. The full 'I know what you and OM are doing and I will not share my w or live in an open marriage, it stops by XXX or XXX'

Haven't figured it all out or would I just stay cool, deny and keep gathering. I thought the goal when exposing was to plan everything out to glare the light of day onto the affair.

I was thinking about what I might do - I would want to talk to OM and tell him to back off as well as let my family and w family in on the sitch as they are all pro m.

W also has a very close friend who is d godmother and would want m to work so I thought about talking to her.

I feel like I'm spinning a little now so sorry if I'm not making sense.


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation