Sorry I'm not making sense. The full 'I know what you and OM are doing and I will not share my w or live in an open marriage, it stops by XXX or XXX'
Haven't figured it all out or would I just stay cool, deny and keep gathering. I thought the goal when exposing was to plan everything out to glare the light of day onto the affair.
I was thinking about what I might do - I would want to talk to OM and tell him to back off as well as let my family and w family in on the sitch as they are all pro m.
W also has a very close friend who is d godmother and would want m to work so I thought about talking to her.
I feel like I'm spinning a little now so sorry if I'm not making sense.
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation