It ended up being a good day yesterday and today with the kids. After I was able to calm down from the shock of yesterday morning's meeting with my H, I did pretty good the rest of the night.

My friend is taking the kids back to my H tonight, so that I don't have to see him or go in my house where I'm sure he had someone again last night.

H texted me last night: "How are you doing with the kids? I was thinking of going to get the easter stuff".
I replied: "Yes"

Then he called me a couple of hours ago to inform me he had gotten all the easter stuff except for clothes. I said ok, and that I would get the clothes for the kids. Then he said, "I just wanted you to know so we didn't double buy". I just said ok, bye.

I'm not sure when I'm going to inform him that I've decided I do want to keep the house. I think I'm going to wait a little while. I plan on calling the mortgage company tomorrow to see if they will work with on my payment.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10