It ended up being a good day yesterday and today with the kids. After I was able to calm down from the shock of yesterday morning's meeting with my H, I did pretty good the rest of the night.
My friend is taking the kids back to my H tonight, so that I don't have to see him or go in my house where I'm sure he had someone again last night.
H texted me last night: "How are you doing with the kids? I was thinking of going to get the easter stuff". I replied: "Yes"
Then he called me a couple of hours ago to inform me he had gotten all the easter stuff except for clothes. I said ok, and that I would get the clothes for the kids. Then he said, "I just wanted you to know so we didn't double buy". I just said ok, bye.
I'm not sure when I'm going to inform him that I've decided I do want to keep the house. I think I'm going to wait a little while. I plan on calling the mortgage company tomorrow to see if they will work with on my payment.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10