I hear you, and I think a big reason I flipped out on her like I did was because I totally put more signifigance on us spending time together than she did. I was in full on "win my wife back mode".
I would very much like for us to only date each other, but I had no idea how she felt about it. I would drop dating all together in a heartbeat if she would agree to see only each other.
I guess I'm just worried that now I am never going to hear from her again, or get another chance... I wish there was something I could do to make that not the case, but I also agree that is probably best for me to just stop pursuing.
