H4L, if he spent the whole day with you, I think it's OK if he didn't return your call last night. You don't know he was avoiding your call - that's mind-reading - so I don't think it would be helpful to call him on it. You could lightly say "hey, you didn't call back last night" later today in person, but only if you can do it with a smile on your face.
This must be so confusing for you. I can only imagine how hard it is for you to pick your responses right now.
Find your center.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.