I'm just less than convinced those cell records are going to really be definitive. Though last night makes me wonder. But I would think that he would be smart enough to use another phone, unless he really believes that you can't get to the records from this one. This guy is a puzzler.
hang in there mindfull. I have read your sitch just never posted. just been lurking for months.
Even if you spend all of that money on cell phone records and obtain them will it help your sitch? H probably won't admit it anyways and you'd probably spend hours checking records and numbers just to hit another snag.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
I've been at this a LONG time. And, I Db'd (or thought I was DB'ing) myself into a shell of my former self. If you've been following along, I only recently, really since early February or so, started to feel like me again.
So, it's time. It's time to rid myself of this resentment that's building up. I need to see the phone records. I need to know if there is a number, or a few numbers that have a high level of activity. If not, then, my other two parallel paths will be in place. If so, I'll strangle him! (J/K) But, I will take some stealth advice on how to handle it. I'm not sure it's something I can forgive. And, I hope to not be presented with the need to decide.
THANK you for coming by!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
... as I told you on IM (just in case someone else is wondering)... our cell account is password protected. My H's drivers cell's are on our account. They can't have access to it, or we'd be broke! I'm not asking him for the password for fear of throwing up a red flag.
Another phone? I'm SURE in his mind it would not be needed. I don't access our account, and I haven't alerted him that I would want to.
He might, though, hey... WTF do I know?
I know one thing. I'm not liking any of this, NOR am I liking this resentment that's building up.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Try not to borrow trouble from the future. I could be days before you have definitive info (((MF)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I've been at this a LONG time. And, I Db'd (or thought I was DB'ing) myself into a shell of my former self. If you've been following along, I only recently, really since early February or so, started to feel like me again.
So, it's time. It's time to rid myself of this resentment that's building up. I need to see the phone records. I need to know if there is a number, or a few numbers that have a high level of activity. If not, then, my other two parallel paths will be in place. If so, I'll strangle him! (J/K) But, I will take some stealth advice on how to handle it. I'm not sure it's something I can forgive. And, I hope to not be presented with the need to decide.
THANK you for coming by!
colossions 3:13 you have to forgive even if you find out anything otherwise god wont forgive you.
can u look over my sitch for me? I promise you once u see mine then look back at yours youll see the positives in your own
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
Blownaway - If he was ever here, I could! He travels during the week for work, only home for brief times. He'd have a new one for me in a heartbeat if I lost it. We don't have a home line, etc... Although, I would like a new phone!
Keep 'em comin'!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Hey mind, cut back on shopping and pay for the 600$. Once the idea entered your mind, it will only HARM you not to act on it. If he comes clean, that would give you more strength to go on, if not (which I hope isnt the case) you will know what you are up against. Dont be afraid, K
