I am confused in that after initial protest I would assume we would be in the protection phase- where anything be delt w/ through texts...
4luv- I feel your pain, but if he's showing no remorse, what good does it do to convey anything to him?
Believe me I am not good at any of this...the only thing I can do right, finally, is NC...as I dont have to do anything at all.
Wish it were helping more, probably just need more time.
I feel like you would be getting along better if you didn't have to engage him at all...make him sweat etc- you wouldnt then be second guessing yourself on how to be...you would just be.
Sorry, I'm super tired and hope none of this is taken the wrong way.
