Im a stranger to your sitch, but I will speak from my own experience...make sure your advances are more than "hey lets have sex."
Be romantic, be in charge of the romance dept (as NUTs says)...establish the emotional bond again if that's been lacking.
I learned the hard way that my WAW was also the LSD partner- yet she was longing for the sweet things, companionship, support, and romance...touching, massaging, etc...
If your W is difficult to please sexually (as mine was) this can come in handy...my other thought is for you to incoorporate the toys if thats what she likes.
There may be alot to this, it seems like there may be additional information you need to disclose for a more accurate depiction
