The confidence part is likely VERY important...I suggest "act as if"

I know my sitch is VERY diff than yours, but W mentioned she "wished I took better care of myself throughout"

W's view of you will be very important- you MUST rise above the blow you took to your ego and such.

She will one day, and perhaps already knows she's very much to blame for the hit to your confidence, but again- force the confidence for now-

You should be able to do so pretty well...you may be Piecing, and she's ILY again...

Those are nice things to be able to say outr loud.

Remember- you must be the person she wants to be w/...so no pouting, negativity, etc.

I'm very happy for you and feel that only good things will happen, just keep those 180's going and PMA.

DARK