well after some thought about my situation, i started to wonder if i am heading in the right direction towards peicing/healing.
W and i are talking about almost everything that lead our R to where it is today. She told me she loves me for the first time since th ILYBNILWY dated a few months ago.
we are not perfectly happy by no means right now, but moving forward. one thing that she recently mentiond to me was that she felt i lacked confidence, and that was one of the things OM gave her. funny thing is told her that she is the one who had a big hand in destroying my confidence over the past few years of non-supportive actions and situations.
talk about co-dependacy...lol
now i am hoping that sandi or some other women can help me to define how to reclaim my confidence. I am not sure exactly what W means, but i want to regain that stron confident figure i was years ago in her eyes....
perhaps i am just rambling now....
well I do know this. Male/Female when you love and care about someone if you are consistently neglected rejected or your spouse is having an A it really lowers your confidence.
As a man it makes you question your own manhood. Our egos are tied to that "2nd little head" alot.
In the bible it says "the tongue is sharper than any two edged sword"
*fyi I'm giving this advice but I haven't taken it myself soo this is a 2/4 for both of us*
What your wife is saying is that she wants a strong loving caring man who doesn't seem so needy and clingy.
the om is something new. He probably tells her all of these nice things (but it's for usually one purpose) and gives her a false sense of confidence.
The woman is supposed to be the weaker vessel.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
