I found it, thank you MrBond. I used a search engine outside of DB to search Orich +divorcebusting and it came up. Beautiful, I will get right to reading it to see what I can take from it.
I feel so guilty spending so much time on me - I usually like to read and at least give support to others. Please forgive me all for being selfish, I just don't have a lot of time to get his figured out.
