So I am absolutely fuming!!! My kids have just come back from H's for the weekend and they are both quite upset. Firstly H did not park near the house and walked my boys in. This was odd and some ridiculous excuse was given for it, but the fact was OW was in the car. (Oh yes, not OW just his best friend!!!)
Anyway S10 had asked my H that the next time he had them (being this weekend) that she not be around. Unfortunatley H decided to do exactly what he wanted and not only was she around for the whole weekend but they also ended up sleeping at her house. My S10 was upset and crying and saying that he didnt want to. My H told them he was too tired to drive and so he needed to stay there. Both my sons look physcially stressed. They said they didnt have a bad weekend,just not one that they wouldhave wanted.
In addition my S7 said that the OW told him to eat the right way round and my H agreed that S7 should eat that way. (My sons, H and I all eat with a fork in the right hand). WTF!! My son has been eating that for 5 years and who the F is she to tell him how to eat.
I feel totally helpless. My H wont listen to reason when it comes to our kids and my kids seem to be suffering in silence due to his action.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived