What do you think of me reading to him from our old sitch where he was "in love" with her and thought she was his "soul mate" back then, only to recommit to me and realize it was a mistake? Do you think that may get through the chemicals, since we've been there done that type of thing? Maybe not immediately, but maybe put a crack in his facade? Remembering, of course, that I don't have to expose that I know about the PA yet since he's brought up a few times "if my heart was full of love for you, it never would have happened." So, I can use that as an excuse to "teach" him reality - from books and our past experiences.