"A question - Is it possible for my wife and the OM to "just be friends"? "

Nope she said she loves him. That's not a friend.

Puppy's right. Don't apologize for something you know you're doing is right.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER