well after some thought about my situation, i started to wonder if i am heading in the right direction towards peicing/healing.

W and i are talking about almost everything that lead our R to where it is today. She told me she loves me for the first time since th ILYBNILWY dated a few months ago.

we are not perfectly happy by no means right now, but moving forward. one thing that she recently mentiond to me was that she felt i lacked confidence, and that was one of the things OM gave her. funny thing is told her that she is the one who had a big hand in destroying my confidence over the past few years of non-supportive actions and situations.

talk about co-dependacy...lol

now i am hoping that sandi or some other women can help me to define how to reclaim my confidence. I am not sure exactly what W means, but i want to regain that stron confident figure i was years ago in her eyes....

perhaps i am just rambling now....

Last edited by gman; 03/28/10 06:22 PM.
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