"You think walking out on your partner and deliberately fracturing your family into a divorce brings you confidence and dignity? Seriously? I SERIOUSLY doubt THAT."
This again is up to the individual. Some people just can't live with being betrayed and push for the D after finding out their spouses cheated on them. The people on here want to save their M. But I know many people here and online who said the A was a dealbreaker.
Once they found out about the cheating, they were D within a month. And they were perfectly fine with their decision. They believed that the A might have been out of their control, but the D was in their control.
They gained confidence and felt they were able to leave with their dignity and were able to show their kids that you never accept cheating from anyone.
Again it's up to the individual and even if it doesn't match your principles, doesn't mean it doesn't work for someone else.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
