I dont know if you read my reply, but I do fit in the category of W being in love w/ OP...
When I busted the A they latched on...diff was OM2 was single- and their similarities: he's from her home town, born in the same hospital, went to the same college (though 8 yrs apart-lol), and he's divorced.
W feels she met her soul mate- though tells me she will NEVER M again...