Saffie & Puppy - You're both right. Thank you. Yes, Saffie, I'm in a frenzy. But it's not from lack of experience with DBing or knowledge of doing what works. It took me some time to get back into the swing of things, but I'm a fighter and I do NOT like to lose. It's mostly because the Retro thing is hanging over me and I had put a lot of hope into it. I really wanted a quick poll to see what was in people's minds. To tell you the truth, I learn from polls and weighing options. I'm leaning towards exposing, for my own sanity and just because I've been there, done that. However, if someone comes on and says their H/W was totally "in love" with the OP, and exposing pushed them away, well, right now I think I would let it ride. At least until Retro, which is non-refundable anyway.
Just trying to get my ducks in a row. Think I need to get everything lined up and ready to ignite before I even put the charges in the dynamite, if you know what I mean. Good news is that MIL/FIL are ready to tell DH that he is NOT welcome over their house if he doesn't end it. So, I'm lucky that way, especially since DH is close to his mother.
