Thanks Allen. You're right. I'll try to remember to do it that way from now on. I guess I've just been so afraid of her leaving thinking that it would be hard to get her back at that point. But like some have pointed out here, she already has one foot out of the door. I keep thinking it would be easier to keep her if I don't run her off.
But your fear is leaving you ASSUMING you asserting yourself WILL run her off.
Its a poker game Ken, she's playing her hand and she's raising you bigtime... you can RAISE her back or fold..
There's no place for nice when you are playing poker. You need to show her you are in the game, or you are out of it.
