Been following your sitch here. Frac, your doing great...no need to second guess yourself. I would say, do not involve the family in this or at least only if absolutely necessary.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08