Not that. But raising any suspicion on SIL at this point is not good for me, is it? I can't really afford to lose any credibility with the fam. Also, lets not forget she'll tell my wife and something dodgy is going on...
I did deactivate that account, hopefully she won't mind.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
OK, Frace, brace yourself, cuz this is gonna sting.
If this is all the intestinal fortitude you have, you're going to be a raging failure at Divorce Busting. Because you're going to have DOZENS of days like this.
DOZENS.
Sorry, just two things happened so next to each other and it was too late to do something about it.
I guess I just need to put things into perspective again
I have a fake FB account. My W has an affair.
Ok.
Thanks Puppy.
I think im going to go for a walk now. Need to focus on other things for awhile or I'll go crazy.
J
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
Also just found out you can google the contents of this forums. I find it very unlikely that, that'll happen but it's scary that this info is not only available for registered users.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
Been following your sitch here. Frac, your doing great...no need to second guess yourself. I would say, do not involve the family in this or at least only if absolutely necessary.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
was that the FB account the OMW was to contact you at? has she yet?
No, that was not the FB account she was supposed to contact me and she hasn't. Got knows what's happening on that front. There's a chance they're on easter holiday.
Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
did your wife's sister give you any indication what your wife is up to now?
She only told me that she wanted to talk things out. That it was not fair for me to call her and not let her self explain, she was in a meeting, blah, blah, blah. And that she mentioned me cutting the phone line. She was pretty mad at this. (of course, she can't speak to OM).
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
I do think, that if nothing else but for appearances, you should do this. Give her an audience, but preface it with "as soon as you start lying to me, this conversation is over."
And then follow up on that.
Then you can tell her family "I tried to talk to her, but she keeps lying to me, and I'm not going to sit there and listen to that -- it insults my intelligence, and it's incredibly disrespectful to our marriage."
I do think, that if nothing else but for appearances, you should do this. Give her an audience, but preface it with "as soon as you start lying to me, this conversation is over."
And then follow up on that.
Then you can tell her family "I tried to talk to her, but she keeps lying to me, and I'm not going to sit there and listen to that -- it insults my intelligence, and it's incredibly disrespectful to our marriage."
NIIIICE!!
Yep, an opportunity to grant her an audience. It will be on your terms and you control the agenda. Oh, and if you want to really stir the pot... as soon as she starts lying again... simply hang up.
