OK, Frace, brace yourself, cuz this is gonna sting.
If this is all the intestinal fortitude you have, you're going to be a raging failure at Divorce Busting. Because you're going to have DOZENS of days like this.
DOZENS.
You are in an emotional and even a spiritual battle right now, for your marriage. If you want to have "easy" days, then JUST DO NOTHING. I'm sure your wife will be glad to "go along to get along," and you'll be fine . . . for awhile.
Then she'll announce one day, several months from now, that she's divorcing you and she will already have all of her bases covered, and you'll have to just sit there and take it up the you-know-what.
Or, you can fight -- NOW -- on YOUR terms, as the one guy in the marriage who actually has its best interests at heart right now.
Your choice. But stop the pity party, because you're doing JUST FINE.