I wouldn't say anything right now because VH is right, you know what he'll say and have no way to verify right now. IF you are dealing with an EA/PA then you need to gather your intel first.
Is paying $600 the only way to get access to the phone records? I think it may be a good investment in peace of mind because knowing, while incredibly painful, is better than the constant wondering. For me, knowing that I wasn't crazy was a big relief and then I could deal with it accordingly.
Go out for your run and burn off some of those emotions!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g