I agree- and Sandi and others have said how disgusted they ar when a LBH does the flip flop b/c WAW is angry, or LBH FEARS he upset WAW.
You CAN'T do that- like PUP says, take the short-term hit...If you havent read NUTS it's stated pertty clear there...
I know it's tough, I pulled the same shirt...
I had my final vent w/ W a week ago, there was no appology or "hey are you mad..." Haven't spoken in a week...great 180 for me- truth darts, and healthy posturing...