Thing is, have you read the other threads she has going? I think just a quick answer like that was not quite what she is looking for at the moment. That was all I was trying to state.
Dunno, Saffie. I took her at face value, when she said:
Originally Posted By: Passenger
I know a lot of people on here now recommend exposing an A. And it makes sense, as they survive best in secrecy - where the thrill is there.
However, show of hands please, how many people exposed and then successfully busted their divorce? How many exposed and it worked in the wrong direction with the affair partners figuring that nothing was stopping them now, may as well go on and leave their respective partners for each other?
I thought she was trying to do a quick poll, esp. since she DID have another thread going to talk about things in greater depth. If someone asks me for the pro's and con's of exposure, I've always certainly given them what I feel are both sides, as I see them.
