4luv- I agree w/ Puppy, the attitude definately sounds/feels familiar to me.
I hope to be there soon...I have my moments, but I am constantly living in he past- shoulda, coulda, woulda...NC definately makes it easier to get there- not like I can push/pull W if we have nothing to do w/ oneanother...
I envy you for reaching this point..I am still in shock/denial...
I appreciate your kind words on my sitch and really hope you're well...