Good job then. Keep heading in that direction. It will be the smartest thing you have ever done. Never chase a man who shows you no respect or any lack of respect. LEAVE him or leave him alone is always the answer. Women have such a hard time believing and doing that.

What you will discover is that not only will you start feeling better about yourself, but it is the key to getting him to pursue. If he doesn't, you are just fine anyway. You win either way and get out of the trap of hope. The hope trap is a dangerous trap to be in.

Last edited by gucci loafer; 03/28/10 04:25 PM.