I exposed my wife's affair, ended it within three months, and my wife and I reconciled nearly three years ago.
Puppy
With all due respect Puppy, it wasn't as clear cut as that and I think your synopsis gives a slightly false impression.
I know it would take too long for you to explain everything here, but you have had a hard long road to travel and from what I know of your sitch 'proper' reconciliation has taken a long time and huge amounts of hard work on your part.
I think what a lot of posters don't understand is that 'busting' the A is just the start of the long hard road.
saffie. I disagree.
Puppys words speak volumes. When you and I read them. We know what he is saying and what he did to walk on that path.
Some times a few words need to be spoken. Then left alone.
Those with knowledge will understand. Those who are beginning the journey will have a choice. Seek the knowledge and wisdom to walk the path they choose. Or wallow in limbo. Or walk away.
And as I just reread again what you wrote.
You and I are saying the same thing. But differently.
So I agree with you saffie.
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