I think you know my stance on this, BUT, if your H CANNOT respect his home and family, and CANNOT stop conducting communications w/OW from home, and CONTINUES to ignore you and your families needs, THAT is your boundary.
You don't need to up and kick him out. You need to tell him, THE ABOVE. If you can't stop this A w/her, and you can't respect me and our family, and can't stop txt'ing/calling from our home or presence, and continue to ignore us, THEN you will find your sh*t in the garage to pick up at your convenience because it won't be needed here.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.