Cesco... Its good to see some kind of updates from you!
You NEED to work on letting go! NO MATTER what your W does you need to not care. Not care that she's being a bad mom, Not care that she's irresponsible, Not care that she has multiple personality disorder....
STOP talking about the R every time you have a few good moments with her - every time you do that you have effectively un-done the work you just put in. LET IT GO. She probably won't bring it up unless you do - hence the convo in the garage.
FOCUS on you and your kids - and for PETE'S SAKE DON'T take her on vacation with you!
Hugs,
T
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