Puppy, can you please post a link to your sitch? I looked for it and didn't find it. I take hope from what you write. I don't know if it translates to my sitch as you're a man and women like a man who stands up - read in my DH's emails that he sees me trying and is sad because there's no hope for us... not sure if standing up is the right thing or doing the total DB thing. Sure would love to read your sitch through.
