feel like giving up - pt 2

[talia]

Luv,
I agree with Gucci - do everything he says! Its time - your H has had enough chances and you need to create a safe situation for your family. Your H needs to be out of your house right now -with his drinking and mistreating you and the kids. None of you deserve that.

I DO think that kicking him out is the best option - epecially if you have proof of the affair. Hire a L and have the paperwork ready when he gets back. I would make sure you get L to ask that H not be allowed at the house. You can pack his stuff - put it in the garage and meet him there with the D papers and your proof when he comes home!

Time to step up and shock the heck out of him - you will feel better in the end too!

I know its not what you want - I understand that feeling - but sometimes doing the right thing has nothing to do with what you WANT!

Hugs - hang in there!


T