WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

Help pls. In the middle of a crisis now.

I got a call, I didn't recognise the number so I picked up.
It was my W's sister. She was fuming!

W's Sister spoke to my W and my wife told her about the phone
and the bank account. And she was really, really upset
that I have done those things without talking to my W first
and let her state her reasons.

W's sister was really upset that I've been calling the family also
when this is such a private matter and we've always been
a very private couple.

She told me that I really need to talk with my W first.

She really made me feel guilty.

Have I gone too far?

Really losing it now.

Sad.