Oh Mila, I just caught up on your thread and am so sorry for what you are dealing with.
Something that struck me about your husband ( a few pages ago) was his email messages about him being trustworthy. That came up with my husband as well, he just somehow didn't understand why I didn't think I could trust him about things. For years he was always the one who told me "trust is the most important part of a relationship", of course that went out the window with his MLC. When I actually asked him outright "don't you understand WHY I can't trust you?" His reply was that he was 'mostly trustworthy". As if somehow the OW and his affair didn't count and should be overlooked.
I would echo the other advice to not mortgage the house. That should be a safeguard for you and your daughter to have a place to live (or to sell and use to buy a new house).
Good luck with your meeting tomorrow.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
