I really don't know how to handle this kind of situation. So if anybody has any advice please post. I've brought my marriage back to life somewhat with the help of the DB books, (we now hug and kiss and say I love you again) but still I have no sex life (5 months) . My wife avoids going to bed with me and would rather do laundry or other chores late at night just to avoid me. When she does come to bed she turns down all of my advances.
I know I'm a good looking guy, and we used to have the most amazing sex, and I'm not supposed to take it personally but she uses sex toys on a regular basis, so obviously it's not that she has a low sexual desire. What am I supposed to think or do about that? And no she doesn't want me to use the toys on her. We've done that once long ago and she said it was incredible, why it hasn't happened again i'm lost.
