Personally, I think until your baby is born you might not know what the heck is going to happen, but after things might resolve quite quickly. Firstly because the birth of a child is a highly emotional thing, and secondly, because it will make both your and your H's needs and wants more obvious.

You sound to be in a good place gatsby.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength