Flo - It comes in bursts, don't get too impressed! LoL
Pearl - Well, at least you'll give him something to chase then!
Still have my closet to do, which last year I moved to the guest room (which I now call my "dressing room" - like I'm a darn queen!), because, since we live in a 100 year old house, the closets are not conducive to my clothing lifestyle, and H thinks he needs some closet room, as well....
UPDATE - AND IT AIN'T GONNA BE PRETTY
So, yesterday afternoon we ended up going (H, boys and I) to my BFF's daughter's AllStar basketball game. (Our sons are BFF's too, so there's a lot of intermingled familial activities.) H suggested we all go to dinner afterward (as he's friendly w/her H, as well...). So, we all went, and H did the coordinating of getting 10 of us into dinner on a Saturday night, last minute, during NCAA basketball season (requirement of the restaurant to go to was that we'd be able to view a TV). It was totally fun, and all had a good time.
We get home, and everyone's tired (both boys attended sleep-overs the night before), and H got in quite late from work. So, everyone is sleeping early. About 3am H gets up (sleeps in his underwear), and goes into the bathroom. He doesn't know I am awake, and I see him checking his phone, as he walks into the bathroom. I sit up (barely able to see since I've fallen asleep in my contacts - and they're super dry and blurry) and just let him know I'm awake. He goes to the bathroom, comes out in his robe, and asks if I want something to drink from the kitchen. When he comes back in, he goes back to the bathroom, hangs up his robe, and comes back to bed (in his underwear). I purposely look to see if he's carrying his phone, since if he was I would make a comment along the lines of... "drivers bugging you on a Saturday night now?" or something along those lines... But, I can't view the phone. So, a few questions, and some bothersome thoughts:
#1 - It seems suspect that he would check his phone during the night on a Saturday night... during the week, not so suspect because he has drivers checking in non-stop. I'm not sure of their schedule, and they COULD be working on a Saturday night, as their loads vary, and they are traveling for him all over the US. BUT, it just seems odd. #2 - Why not have the phone in view when he comes out? #3 - Where was he hiding the phone, in his underwear? (LoL - not a lot of room there - as soon as I'm done typing this I'm going to check in the bathroom, as he's still asleep...) #4 - I chose not to say anything then since, I could barely see, AND, I wasn't entirely coherent. However, when he came back to bed, I couldn't sleep, and he tried talking to me... friendly conversation while laying there. I'm chatty (who knew?) and almost ALWAYS friendly w/him, so I'm sure he noticed the difference in demeanor. The less I would engage, the more he tried to chat. #5 - I WILL say something (tomorrow am before he goes back out of town, and the boys aren't here), so I'm open to suggestions. #6 - How to act today? He's taking the boys bowling this am w/my parents. And, then all afternoon he's playing in a poker tournament (I encouraged it, as he enjoys the guys - friends in our neighborhood - and he's very good. Might win!). So, I won't see him too much, just this evening...
And, remember, I'm not afraid to speak up now.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
