1. Go to see best man (with MIL/FiL as support and backup) and ask him to do the good, moral thing and stand by me UNTIL divorce. I think that once he sees my side of it, he may stand up and agree to that. Maybe not, but I think I know him well enough to see the morality in not allowing the A to continue behind my back. 2. Expose to OWH 3. Expose to OW - share with her that this is not his first time, and share the article 4. Go to Retrouvaille and hope for the best from DH - haven't decided yet if I expose to him before or after Retrouvaille, and if so, how far in advance. I guess all of the above has to be done at the same time.
