Actually there's a great forum on the survivinginfidelity website where you can ask alot of WAS's what made them decide to turn around. It was a real eye opener to me.
I mentioned some of the topics we discuss and the majority were pretty appalled that some are advocating going out and shaming the WAS. They said they'd never go back if that had happened.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
