Allen, thank you so much for your on the spot advice - I am in a desperate situation right now. Your right, and I totally understand. I think my wife may choose to move out this morning because of my ultimatum (I tried to present it as a boundary - I think it may have come out sounding more like an ultimatum). She basically refuses to stop talking to the OM and I told her that if she wants to continue talking to the OM, she would have to leave. The OM has a spare empty house for her to stay in. She slept on the sofa last night. I'm starting to think I shouldn't have said anything. The night before was so much better.

I wouldn't be surprised if the OMW is buying flowers and chocolates, but she told me yesterday she is using something called Marriage Fitness.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.