In short Passenger, YES, expose to anyone who may put any kind of pressure on your H to END his AFFAIR
And just becuase he's lying to her doesn't mean he's done with her.. he's lying to you too... remember?
I am not trying to be a downer here, but you do need to know that this sort of thing doesn't end smoothly.
Men in particular can be VERY KIND to their spouse and walk out the door and cheat on them without a second thought. We are talented compartmentalizers.
Not sure what article you are referring to, i just see a url to another thread in newcomers.
Anyhow. Ignore the "love of his life" business, its just chemicals as you already noted... those dissappear over time.
The more reality you can bring to bear on him the less FUN the infidelity is. Those chemicals get charged up from how exciting the affair is.. if you take the fun of it for him you put a serious dent in his addiction. Spoil his fun.
