She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

robx, you are one of the few that disagree with the validate everything route. I agree I should validate what is true and except my part, but you have to be able to stand up for yourself. I'm not talking about being a d!ck, but be firm.

I have talked to her about saying these things to my D, and she has stopped. My D says the two of them are on good terms but they don't really talk anymore. This was from a conversation from a few months back.

Ever since I told her I was coming home, she's stop contacting me like she used to. She would send me emails or call every now and then. Now there's nothing. I call and speak to my D and chat on Facebook with her, but nothing between W and I.

Like I said before, I just can't wait to get home and see my girls. Relax a few days, and then start the conversation and go from there. Until I get home, there's too much still unclear.

I was fine when she still initiating contact, but now that she's not it's gotten tough.