Do I even bring up the fact that I know she was planning this before I left? I know I'm going to want to mention this at some point, but will it set me back.
I was chatting with my D14 last night and she mentioned that my W had told her at one point that our problems were not fixable. How do you tell a 14 year old that.
My D14 sees that I'm trying, but she's telling me not to carry on with this if it's so painfull. How can my D really want me to give up. She sees how hard I'm trying to do the right things, and she respects me for that.
This crap really hurts.
You speak to your wife and tell her that you are documenting all this crap that she talks to your daughters about, your relationship problems are between you & your wife, she is causing them unnecessary pain & damage by giving them these kinds of details, tell her it's disrespectful to talk about the marriage issues with the kids when you're not there and she needs to stop.
