Another thing to consider. I could send that article to her (see link above), expose to her husband, all on the way to Retrouvaille, so they have the weekend to have the fallout, and DH and I have the weekend without him knowing I did those things... to work on us. Who knows, we may reconnect.
DH did some nice things for me today, such as fixing my car without being asked. That's his LL, so it meant something to me that he did that. I don't believe he's entirely done with me yet, he's lying to her already... like he said he decided not to take me out to dinner for my bday because we were just friends and he didn't want to confuse me, but in reality, I refused because I didn't want to spoil our romantic spot while we weren't feeling romantic.