Moving here, just confirmed, several avenues -help

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((Passenger))

I am so sorry. I know this is hard, I have been there too.

Just found out... should I wait before taking action?

Yes, wait at least 24-48 hours to get back on level. Wait for input from the vets.

Do I expose that I know of the affair to him? WE ARE GOING TO RETROUVAILLE ON 4/16 AND I WAS REALLY HOPING THAT IT WOULD HEAL US.

I would think you need to expose before RV but you need an exposure plan to make sure it is most effective

Do I EXPOSE A TO THE OW'S H?

Yes, but as part of an overall exposure strategy. Please wait for input from the vets.

I can't take another year of DBing... or maybe I can, but right now I am in shock and think maybe I can't.

I know this is so hard right now but now is not the time for deciding what you can take long term. Slow down, breathe and try to relax. Time is on your side so try to relax and work with folks here to formulate a plan of action. Don't worry about long term right now.

Please help. We work together and I have to go to work on Monday, so I can't hide forever.

I work at the same place as my W and OM so believe me, I know this is not an easy situation. This is not a good reason to act fast however.

Passenger, you are hurting and feeling incredible pain from this revelation. I know it is hard but try to slow down and wait for input from others as they will help you formulate a plan for exposure.

You are string and you can handle this!