Moving here, just confirmed, several avenues -help

[flowmom]

Sorry to read that you are in this position, Passenger. But at least you know.

Here's a recent thread for a guy who's gotten a lot of coaching on busting the A:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1962861&page=1

Probably worth a read-through as much of the advice will likely apply to your sitch.

Hang in there and breathe!