D'ed Xhusband wants XWife back

[Mr GK]

We are divorced.
But I hope to to "win her back".
I think I still need to back off a little, and continue working on myself. Some of the issues that I need to change for myself are things that she would respect me for having changed.

I tend to feel bad about myself regarding my troubling issues.

I am not about to grovel and cling. But I dont want to be cold and cruel either. I just need to find the right balance I suppose, as it makes it difficult when we get along quite well together, and I want to get too close with her...Make her possibly feel trapped again.