the wife will show small flashes of attempting to get along but then will revert back to this smoldering anger. I finally couldn't take it any more tonight and told her that living with her is miserable, that she's a miserable person and that I think it's pathetic that she can't get over herself enough to at least put up a good front for our 3 year old....I'm guessing this is verbal abuse? I really don't care anymore. I spoke with my dad and he said what she's been doing for about a year now is abusive...but women never get called on the carpet for threatening divorce constantly.

I'm really torn here, part of me can't wait to file for a divorce from this miserable person, and the other half still has hope somehow