W officially in R w/ OM-

[4luv]

just sending some encouragement your way. Each day will get better. Weekends are hard but you will soon start to enjoy YOUR time. What has helped me the most is finding a way to spend my down time doing something I am passionate about. I ended up starting a business on a fluke within a few weeks time, should have a website launched for it in 4 weeks, already had my first out of state shipment with several other orders in town (I bake :-)). IF you like to read, get out the house and go to a bookstore/coffee shop and hang out there. Love food (I am a foodie), go eat by yourself at a nice restaurant but sit at the bar (someone will always strike up a conversation with you). I don't really like walks but some people find that relaxing also (personally they make me do too much thinking when I am alone and my mind is at rest). Oh, my favorite is to set a REALLY hard goal for yourself that will make you have to focus most of your energy on that ONE GOAL...almost like when you have the goal of saving your marriage and most of us on this site put ALL of our energy and thoughts everyday into DBing. CHANGE THE GOAL. Make your goal to run a half marathon or a regular marathon. The training is regimented where you would have to focus on meeting you running goals each day and on the weekend. It would also allow you to join a marathon training group and meet new people. They usually do their long runs together on the weekend and eat bkfast together afterwards.

Sorry so winded but just wanted to give you ALOT of options to keep you mind busy :-) Like my mom always said, "An idle mind is the devil's playground"