Basically letting your H spin, means let him do what ever it is he is doing and don’t concern yourself with it or let yourself get dragged into the drama.
Within themselves, they are up, down, back, forth, and zig zagging all over the place…
MLCer’s are filled with confusion and contradiction. We do not always see it, but many times we do…
You will hear terms like “alien”, “mothership”, “rollercoaster”, or other sorts of things that indicate up and down or really out of the normal behavior around here.
Personally, I have always viewed this as the teacup ride…
Where the cups spin in circles and then they don’t, you get dizzy and then you get your bearings for a while and then you are dizzy again…
It isn’t the best feeling, but it is a way to describe what the MLCer is going through to someone who is not going through the same process…
If you join him on the ride, you will eventually be just as confused as he is…
Which is what it appears like you are starting to do now and everyone wants you to avoid…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
